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"A family located in the northern part of London is looking for an extraordinary and experienced tutor to assist their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might naturally miss the phrase "beginning" as just a turn of phrase.

However, it might be the most important part of this unique employment listing, as it seeks to hire a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Many of responses have already been submitted since the anonymous family advertised their call for the highly paid tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the post has gained interest in the press, with numerous questioning why?

Progressive Approach

A tutoring expert, head and founder of Tutors International, which is helping the family in their quest, said that in spite of first scepticism, he viewed the plan "far sighted", and "progressive".

When he consulted the family, he noted they recognized the unusual nature of their request, and how immature their son is.

But, they stated that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to get a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that age "cultural conditioning had already set in".

But what does the family refer to by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", the expert replied. "The manner you eat, how you speak".

He stated the older sibling had absorbed "really subtle, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had taken on their cultural ways. The family explained to him they hoped to prevent this pattern to happen again with their infant.

The plan: To bring in a UK tutor, who should speak with Received Pronunciation, to influence the baby from the very start.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the development at the start here is somewhat acquired indirectly," stated the CEO.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will acquire the English characteristics they aim to cultivate.

Adam noted the tutor had to be somebody who attended "prestigious academies – comparable categories of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The tutor simply needs to be the right kind of person, they'll be doing things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family told the expert the chosen tutor should ideally also have familiarity of or passion in equestrian activities, alpine skiing, creative fields and music so as to influence the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.

Additionally though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a variety of lessons so the child would be "equestrian training and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's view, helping their son develop into a "English gentleman" will lead to achievement and create opportunities.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a class statement," he adds.

However, notwithstanding all this instruction in "English culture", would the child adopt so-called cultural bias from the multicultural family he is raised by anyway?

"Absolutely", answered the CEO. "They realize this may not work, but they've just taken the attitude of, 'let's give it a go and let's go as early as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he explained.

Overly Optimistic

A number of in the education sector who express similar concerns.

Another CEO, CEO and founder of Blue Education, who supplies personal educators, stated that "the journey of becoming bicultural, or in fact, discovering oneself, is something that must be grown into, not designed."

He noted that he had moved from the Far East to the UK at the time of 7 years old, and had been educated knowing and practicing two backgrounds. He went on to study at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that one individual can function as a living vessel of English culture, someone who can possibly impart the attributes of a UK sophisticate upon a infant child, strikes me as optimistic and impractical," he stated.

"From my perspective, having a distinctly UK tutor from infancy will not automatically achieve the outcome they desire.

"I wasn't provided with such a tutor, and however I have been lucky enough to experience several of the situations they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The fact is, self-identity can not be imposed from the external environment; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, UK identity is something the expert thinks can be instructed – and sold.

"In my view the situation that the international society views us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating